1. Dr. DePompo

    Moving Past the Post-Holiday Blues

    The holidays are over. You may be left with the toll of having jumped back into your own family role, feel like you took somewhat of a financial hit, or maybe “beyond lapsed” with your diet and exercise plan. Though you may feel like you’ve backtracked and are stuck, there...
  2. Dr. DePompo

    4 Types of Men Who Cheat & How to Spot Them

    Tinder, Coffee meets bagel, J Date, Match, eHarmony-the list goes on: numerous way to meet men, but how can we tell if they are truly “available?” His persistence and prowl mean he wants to date you – but not that he is free. Sure. No relationship is perfect, but who...
  3. Cassandra Quaglierini

    Sometimes a “Good Girl” is bad

    We hear it all the time “You were such a good boy today!” or “You are so talented.”  Or maybe you overhear parents chatting about how “special” or how “smart” their child is.  Now, this may come off as a surprise being I am a child therapist but I say...
  4. Misa Butsuhara

    Rigid Thinking & How it Can Make You Cheat

    When it comes down to it, it’s rigid thinking that gets us into trouble. It makes us believe all sorts of things that simply aren’t true. Things like, “My spouse should automatically know how to make me happy,” “I put up with a lot, so I deserve to have an affair,”...
  5. Dr. DePompo

    Affair Etiquette: Dos, Don’ts for The Other Woman

    Having Grace Grace who? Most people in your shoes were duped. They didn’t know their partner was married or were lead to believe they were living separate lives. Perhaps you knew his status, but did not think such feelings would develop over time? Do have grace with yourself. Your intentions...
  6. Misa Butsuhara

    It’s All About the New R & R …And No BS!

      If you and your spouse have been affected by an extra-marital affair, you are likely feeling a variety of conflicting emotions. You might be feeling anxious about whether or not you will be able to stay together. If you both want to salvage your marriage, you are likely much...
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